Sep 15, 2026 · 19 min · 6 segments
What does shame stop *you* from doing? Have you ever felt ashamed of a condition you didn’t choose? Comment below with your experience — your story may help someone else. Share this episode with…
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But in what cases is shame a choice? And for most of us, shame is not a choice that we realize that we even made.

Whereof do I speak? This one comes out of my own personal experience with shame.

And as opposed to what people say on the interwebs, in our comment section, I am not somebody who is focused on mental illness.

You know, I have my life outside of mental illness where mental illness barely ever comes up because why would it, you know, in just daily life? But I'm never ashamed when I'm not up to being what people expect me to be.

I worked in a job full time for two and a half years and nobody knew that I live with complex PTSD.

And when I finally spoke about my mental illness, it was very slow and it was very careful and it was not easy.

But in what cases is shame a choice? And for most of us, shame is not a choice that we realize that we even made.

Whereof do I speak? This one comes out of my own personal experience with shame.

And as opposed to what people say on the interwebs, in our comment section, I am not somebody who is focused on mental illness.

You know, I have my life outside of mental illness where mental illness barely ever comes up because why would it, you know, in just daily life? But I'm never ashamed when I'm not up to being what people expect me to be.

I worked in a job full time for two and a half years and nobody knew that I live with complex PTSD.

And when I finally spoke about my mental illness, it was very slow and it was very careful and it was not easy.
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