Sep 21, 2026 · 1 hr 14 min · 8 segments
In this enlightening episode, Sathiya sits down with Kavita Ajwani, a renowned dating coach specializing in helping high-performing men unlearn limiting beliefs and build genuine connections with…
Kavita AjwaniGuestSathiya SamHostSo well, this is this is where I really wanted to get here is I I guess I've been wondering if Some of the neurology and some of the psychology behind these dating apps is playing into guys' porn usage and vice versa.
So what I mean is what you just talked about is a huge reason why guys stay addicted to pornography.
It's the novelty that actually keeps them coming around because there's always different – there's always new videos and there's new content.
And it sounds to me a little bit of like a similar dopamine trap with first dates where first dates can almost become addictive.
Maybe we won't quite use that language, but they can become very enticing because it's the thrill.
I know I know like I've obviously I've been on your platform before and got to speak to some of your audience and that kind of thing.
Do you find that at all? Does pornography come up? Do you notice guys having these sort of like pornographic relationships with dating apps and dating in general? Is that a thing? Is there a correlation here from what you're seeing?
I think this is an interesting connection that I haven't explored much yet.
I know that a lot of my clients, we've actually shared some clients, which I didn't know at first just by chance.
But what has been coming up a lot in my space is men who are i don't know if i would say addicted but definitely compulsive pornography use um and they are and we talk about it they're very aware of it i don't this is where i would send people to you is i don't have um all the strategies for breaking the habit so i have like my strategies for unlearning and breaking patterns in general but i think being in the environment of I'm leveling up, I'm stepping into a new identity.
These men who are in my space, they want to break those habits and they know that there is a lot of self-awareness, at least now, around how that is limiting them from finding a connection.
And it was actually our conversation, our IG Live, which was I think in 2024,
So well, this is this is where I really wanted to get here is I I guess I've been wondering if Some of the neurology and some of the psychology behind these dating apps is playing into guys' porn usage and vice versa.
So what I mean is what you just talked about is a huge reason why guys stay addicted to pornography.
It's the novelty that actually keeps them coming around because there's always different – there's always new videos and there's new content.
And it sounds to me a little bit of like a similar dopamine trap with first dates where first dates can almost become addictive.
Maybe we won't quite use that language, but they can become very enticing because it's the thrill.
I know I know like I've obviously I've been on your platform before and got to speak to some of your audience and that kind of thing.
Do you find that at all? Does pornography come up? Do you notice guys having these sort of like pornographic relationships with dating apps and dating in general? Is that a thing? Is there a correlation here from what you're seeing?
I think this is an interesting connection that I haven't explored much yet.
I know that a lot of my clients, we've actually shared some clients, which I didn't know at first just by chance.
But what has been coming up a lot in my space is men who are i don't know if i would say addicted but definitely compulsive pornography use um and they are and we talk about it they're very aware of it i don't this is where i would send people to you is i don't have um all the strategies for breaking the habit so i have like my strategies for unlearning and breaking patterns in general but i think being in the environment of I'm leveling up, I'm stepping into a new identity.
These men who are in my space, they want to break those habits and they know that there is a lot of self-awareness, at least now, around how that is limiting them from finding a connection.
And it was actually our conversation, our IG Live, which was I think in 2024,
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