The Happiness Carrot Trap
Success kept moving away despite every achievement.
Identity Evolution® with Lorena Schuth
Jun 2, 2026 · 1 hr 2 min · 16 segments
In this conversation, Nina Oberoi shares her transformative journey from a successful legal career to embracing her true purpose in energy work and psychic abilities. She discusses the challenges of…
Nina OberoiGuest
Lorena SchuttHost
So then you kind of touched on it and you said throughout your legal career, you know, life was good and, you know, you were actually successful and happy.

But can you speak a little bit more to that? Like, how was your day to day, your internal world? And who was the version of you that existed there or at that time?

Well, at the time, I was very ambitious, very driven, but what I see now was that I was very driven by...

What's the word I want to use? Almost that ambition and drive came from a place of fear.

Because if you have that to begin with, which a lot of us have, like that is one of the main core wounds in this world.

And that got even re-triggered as I joined law school because – In Sweden, like I had been studying at university before law school.

But when I walk into law school day one and there's this huge auditorium with 320 students and it was an auditorium with like blonde ponytails and guys with back slicked hair.

And, you know, I was wearing like baggy jeans and like a sweatshirt, because I mean, it's uni, you know, it's not like, you know, first day at a law firm.

So that triggered like a different layer of that wounding that I need to prove myself that I deserve a space to be here.

So then you kind of touched on it and you said throughout your legal career, you know, life was good and, you know, you were actually successful and happy.

But can you speak a little bit more to that? Like, how was your day to day, your internal world? And who was the version of you that existed there or at that time?

Well, at the time, I was very ambitious, very driven, but what I see now was that I was very driven by...

What's the word I want to use? Almost that ambition and drive came from a place of fear.

Because if you have that to begin with, which a lot of us have, like that is one of the main core wounds in this world.

And that got even re-triggered as I joined law school because – In Sweden, like I had been studying at university before law school.

But when I walk into law school day one and there's this huge auditorium with 320 students and it was an auditorium with like blonde ponytails and guys with back slicked hair.

And, you know, I was wearing like baggy jeans and like a sweatshirt, because I mean, it's uni, you know, it's not like, you know, first day at a law firm.

So that triggered like a different layer of that wounding that I need to prove myself that I deserve a space to be here.
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The Happiness Carrot Trap
Success kept moving away despite every achievement.
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