How Overcoming Alcohol Culture Leads to Radical Self-Love with Suzanne Warye

Send us Fan Mail **Can outgrowing alcohol completely transform how we love ourselves and our families?** This week on *How We Love*, our ageless, indomitable, and delightfully no-bullshit 92-year-old host **Robin Lane** sits down with **Suzanne Warye**, author of *The Sober Shift* and host of the hit podcast *The Sober Mom Life*. Together, this powerhouse duo strips away the romanticized myths of alcohol culture to talk about what it really takes to choose radical self-acceptance and healing. In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Suzanne shares her path from a fashion influencer hiding behind secret blackouts to a sobriety movement leader helping thousands of women find "a softer place to land". Whether you are sober-curious, dealing with postpartum anxiety, or simply ready to set firmer boundaries in your relationships, Robin and Suzanne deliver the tough-love blueprint you need. **In this episode, you’ll learn:** - **The Sobriety Shift:** Why waiting for a tragic "rock bottom" is a trap—and how to quit on your own terms. - **Motherhood & Alcohol Culture:** Deconstructing the "mommy juice" narrative and dealing with the postpartum triggers nobody talks about. - **92 Years of Perspective:** Robin’s legendary psychotherapist insights on shifting your habits to protect your mental health. - **Choosing Your Hard:** Practical advice on managing unresolved emotions, sticky thoughts, and early recovery anger. **Suzanne Warye** is a sobriety influencer (@suzannewarye and @thesobermomlife) and the author of *The Sober Shift: A Modern Day Guide to Living an Abundant Sober Life* and host of the popular podcast *The Sober Mom Life.* As the founder of The Sober Mom Life Cafe, she has created a supportive digital community for women to explore their relationships with alcohol and find freedom in sobriety. Her writing has been featured in *Scary Mommy* and the *Huffington Post*. Residing on the North Shore of Chicago with her husband and three kids, Suzanne spends most of her time reheating her coffee and rocking her “whole heart, half ass” parenting philosophy. If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to **follow, rate, and review** *How We Love with Robin Lane* on your favorite podcast platform. New episodes feature inspiring conversations with authors, entrepreneurs, artists, advocates, and thought leaders exploring **love, relationships, mental health, personal growth, resilience, healing, and the human experience.** Connect with Robin Lane:  Instagram: @RobinLaneNYC Facebook: @RobinLaneNYC