🎙️S2 E3 Why Smart People Ignore Red Flags How Childhood Wounds Edit the Evidence. Behavioral Intelligence™ Series | Episode 3

If the red flags were there... Why didn't you see them? In Episode 3 of the **Behavioral Intelligence™ Series**, Paula Lowe, RN, BSN, explores one of the most important questions in relationship healing: **What if the problem wasn't that you missed the behavior... but that your childhood taught you to interpret it differently?** Our nervous systems are wired to seek what's familiar before what's healthy. Childhood wounds can quietly shape how we explain away inconsistency, excuse unhealthy behavior, and mistake familiar patterns for safe relationships. In this episode, you'll discover: Why smart, emotionally aware people still ignore red flags. How childhood wounds create a "lens" through which you interpret behavior. **The Behavioral Intelligence™ Formula**: **Behavior → Interpretation → Decision**. Five common childhood wounds that distort the way we perceive relationships. How to separate **facts** from the **stories** we tell ourselves. What Jesus meant when He said, **"You will recognize them by their fruit."** (Matthew 7:16), and how biblical discernment differs from judgment Healing isn't just learning how to recognize unhealthy behavior It's learning to stop rewriting it Because your childhood may have taught you how to survive.. But healing teaches you how to see If you've ever looked back on a relationship and wondered, *"The signs were there... why didn't I see them?"* this episode is for you. **Heal. Choose Better. Love Better.**