Jul 10, 2026 · 12 min · 8 segments
They call. They text. They talk about taking you on dates. They tell you they are looking for their person They paint a beautiful picture of how they will treat you... But are they actually…
Paula LoweHost
What actions are supporting those words? Receiving a text message in the morning saying good morning, thinking about you throughout the day, and a good night at night is not actions.

Do they have interest in you when it's not convenient for them? Healthy relationships don't require grand speeches.

James 2 17 reminds us, and this applies to friendships and relationships, faith by itself.

For example, if you are a Christian, you believe in Jesus Christ, but you also believe that your sins are going to be forgiven, so you just continue to sin.

What action are you showing that you truly are a Christian? versus I can go ahead and sin because I'm going to be forgiven.

When someone's vocabulary keeps growing, but the relationship doesn't, pay attention.

What actions are supporting those words? Receiving a text message in the morning saying good morning, thinking about you throughout the day, and a good night at night is not actions.

Do they have interest in you when it's not convenient for them? Healthy relationships don't require grand speeches.

James 2 17 reminds us, and this applies to friendships and relationships, faith by itself.

For example, if you are a Christian, you believe in Jesus Christ, but you also believe that your sins are going to be forgiven, so you just continue to sin.

What action are you showing that you truly are a Christian? versus I can go ahead and sin because I'm going to be forgiven.

When someone's vocabulary keeps growing, but the relationship doesn't, pay attention.
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