223: Dating After Divorce With Guest Kristin Sokol

Send us Fan Mail Dating after divorce can feel like starting over in a body that remembers every hard ending. If you’ve been betrayed, ghosted, or you simply don’t trust your own judgment yet, you’re not alone and you’re not broken. We sit down with dating coach Kristin Sokol to talk about what actually helps people move forward: replacing snap conclusions with curiosity, and building a process that protects your heart without shutting down real possibility. Kristin shares how her background in journalism and years in matchmaking shaped a research-informed approach to modern dating. We get into common post-divorce dating mistakes, why “all or nothing” thinking kills momentum, and how to create more opportunity by showing up in real life even when the activity isn’t your favorite. You’ll also hear practical guidance on dating apps, including how many apps to use at once to prevent dating app burnout and how to keep online dating from taking over your brain. Then we go tactical: why a phone call (or better, a video chat) before meeting can save you weeks of confusion, how to use a Google Voice number for privacy, and why Kristin’s “under 90 minutes” first date rule can reduce oversharing, prevent the vulnerability hangover, and set you up for a stronger second date. We also talk about texting and pacing as strategy, not games, plus what makes a strong dating profile when you want to attract the right person, not everyone. Find Kristin @ kristinsokol.com or on social media @kristinsokol If you’re rebuilding confidence and figuring out dating after betrayal, this conversation gives you clear next steps you can try right away. Subscribe, share with a friend who’s starting over, and leave a review to help more people find support.  Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 30 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: [hello@lifecoachjen.com](mailto:hello@lifecoachjen.com) for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com take the Free Quiz to find out how- How healed you are?