Grow with Vee: let’s grow and laugh
Sep 4, 2026 · 16 min · 9 segments
What does love truly mean?
She didn't want to have any form of intimacy, sexual intimacy before marriage.
So she's dating this guy.
He respects, you know, her belief and her conviction.
But then he finds out that she's not, in quotes, a virgin.
She's not the perfect picture he had painted in his head.
Oh, he has a virgin girlfriend.
He feels like out of all his friends, there's the one that will marry a virgin.
You know, just blah, blah in his head.
So one day he just asks her, have you had sex before? And she says no.
She didn't even understand where that question was coming from.
Mind you, she wasn't lying, and I'll get to it.
She had this friend that knew something she knows that she hasn't told anybody.
You know, like we have that friend that we confide in.
That being said, God help us from unfriendly friends, people that we think that are our friends, but they are not.
Christ wants us to love everybody, but also he wants to keep us safe as well.
So now I will continue.
Anywho, the friend tells him that she was pregnant one time and she terminated the pregnancy.
So this guy is upset.
He goes to the girl's house.
Or he first talks to his friends that he can't believe that how is it possible that a virgin girl can be pregnant and whatnot.
And then he goes to her.
His friends tell him, okay, just go and talk to her about it.
Ask her.
He just went so angry.
She didn't want to have any form of intimacy, sexual intimacy before marriage.
So she's dating this guy.
He respects, you know, her belief and her conviction.
But then he finds out that she's not, in quotes, a virgin.
She's not the perfect picture he had painted in his head.
Oh, he has a virgin girlfriend.
He feels like out of all his friends, there's the one that will marry a virgin.
You know, just blah, blah in his head.
So one day he just asks her, have you had sex before? And she says no.
She didn't even understand where that question was coming from.
Mind you, she wasn't lying, and I'll get to it.
She had this friend that knew something she knows that she hasn't told anybody.
You know, like we have that friend that we confide in.
That being said, God help us from unfriendly friends, people that we think that are our friends, but they are not.
Christ wants us to love everybody, but also he wants to keep us safe as well.
So now I will continue.
Anywho, the friend tells him that she was pregnant one time and she terminated the pregnancy.
So this guy is upset.
He goes to the girl's house.
Or he first talks to his friends that he can't believe that how is it possible that a virgin girl can be pregnant and whatnot.
And then he goes to her.
His friends tell him, okay, just go and talk to her about it.
Ask her.
He just went so angry.
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