Open Relationships, RV Drama, & One Unhinged Labor Day

But first things first, and we are going to move on to our healthy habits part of the episode, which is celebrating some wins.

You know, I love to hear your wins, and I want to continue to hear them, okay? This is a collaboration, sister.

I want to hear all the good things that are happening in your life.

I think life right now is so difficult for a lot of people, and sometimes it's really just looking at like the minimal things that are going good can kind of help change our mindset and our perception on our day to day.

And that's coming from me, the girl who's literally trying to figure the fuck out, okay? Who had to put herself in therapy because she was like going down this downward spiral of like, who is she? What is she doing? What's her direction? This is coming from me.

So I thought of a couple of wins.

These are just basic because I'll be so for real.

I'm also PMSing this week and I've had like three crash outs.

Thank God for being with such a patient man because I woke up this morning and I was thinking to myself like, wow, we went on a date last night and I think I ruined it.

I got so irrationally irritated about doing, we got into, I say an argument, but it wasn't an argument.

We were like genuinely laughing and joking the whole time, but I was getting irrationally upset over how we calculate the 20% tip at a restaurant.

And this is like a deeper thought process Um, because my man is a talker.

You think I'm a talker? Oh my God.

You get him going around someone he likes and he does or someone he trusts.

He is talking, talking, talking, talking, talking.

And I tried to explain the way I was doing math.

And he basically told me I was doing it wrong.

And then he went on to say, you have to do it this way.

And I tried to stop him and tell him like, listen, you're not listening.

Okay.

Um, your brain works differently than mine.

This was our argument.

It lasted leaving the restaurant and the whole 20 minute.

And I'm like, how do we pivot from such a great date to a ridiculous math conversation about money into like us coming at the end of the night? You know what I mean? Yeah.

I guess this could be one of my wins.