Fantasy, Flirt, or Full Send: A Guide to Conversations Around Fantasies

This week's position of the week is going to be the chairman, okay? We are adding some sexiness, some flair, a little spice to fucking on a chair.

[laughs] Unintentional rhyme.

And not only are we going to use a chair as a prop, we are also going to grab a full-length mirror, 'kay? You can get these for $10 at Walmart.

Um, maybe you already have one in your home.

Maybe you have a room that you could bring a chair into that already has a full-length mirror or some mirror where you're gonna be able to see yourself sitting in it.

So this is really a two-parter.

What I wanted to do, I wanted to add in a little, these little ways that we can spice up our positions in the bedroom, and this kinda goes along with this week's episode of the podcast.

We're talking about fantasies, okay? Using our imagination, being creative, wanting to better understand our needs and our wants in the bedroom to make it more fun, to make it more exciting, and this is one of the ways to do it.

Get out of the bed, get into a chair, find yourself a mirror, and you can do this two ways.

If you have this fantasy, which we're gonna get into later, of watching or being watched, 'kay? This applies, both of these positions apply to this fantasy.

The, your man's gonna be on the chair.

You can either face him and the mirror's behind you so he can watch you guys get down with the get down, 'kay? Twerk on it, just the tip.

Remember that one.

Remember that position? If you don't, go back to the beginning of the year.

That's a great one you can add in this position of the chairman.

'Kay.

So adding the mirror allows your partner to watch what you're doing, so if you have that fantasy of like, "Oh, this is sexy.

This is kinky.

I want him to watch me get on, get it, get on to get right on [laughs] to drop down on that thing," you know? Um, that way you have that one.

Now, if you wanna partake in the fun and you like watching, you do a f- you flip yourself over, so now your back is to him almost like reverse cowgirl, but he's in the chair.

You're on top either at the edge of the chair, and you're, like, quite literally twerking on it, 'kay? Or you could be sitting on his lap, and you can be moving, and you can looking directly in the mirror, and you can see what you're doing.

Adding these little things, I'm telling you, are a game changer.

It's hot.

It's steamy.

Exac- it's sexy.