Aug 27, 2026 · 59 min · 11 segments
This week Sonia and Jess start with a very important discussion about luteal-phase personalities, accidentally discovering the secret to good hair, and a grocery-store experience so upsetting it…
Jessica RizzieriHost
Sonia TapleyHost
So did you see that reel that I sent you about when someone asks if you want to have more children and you're like stuck between... do I give them the short and sweet version or do I give them the trauma, the trauma bond experience where they get to know the whole IVF story? Yeah, I actually, it's funny because I feel like this comes up

more than I ever realized that I would, especially now that I'm like divorced.

I'm single and I'm being forced to put myself out there and talk to people.

And I've been asked so many times, like, so what are your thoughts on like having more kids? And I'm like, my first thought is like, I mean, I'm 43.

But yeah, no, I've actually been in that situation where I'm just like, I'm not ready to like dump all of this on this person.

If in the perfect world, if I didn't have any fertility struggles and I met the right person and they were like, do you want to have another one? Yeah.

And then they're like, is she your only? And like, is that intentional? Like, there's just all these questions of like, are you going to have another one? Cause she's still only five.

So did you see that reel that I sent you about when someone asks if you want to have more children and you're like stuck between... do I give them the short and sweet version or do I give them the trauma, the trauma bond experience where they get to know the whole IVF story? Yeah, I actually, it's funny because I feel like this comes up

more than I ever realized that I would, especially now that I'm like divorced.

I'm single and I'm being forced to put myself out there and talk to people.

And I've been asked so many times, like, so what are your thoughts on like having more kids? And I'm like, my first thought is like, I mean, I'm 43.

But yeah, no, I've actually been in that situation where I'm just like, I'm not ready to like dump all of this on this person.

If in the perfect world, if I didn't have any fertility struggles and I met the right person and they were like, do you want to have another one? Yeah.

And then they're like, is she your only? And like, is that intentional? Like, there's just all these questions of like, are you going to have another one? Cause she's still only five.
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