Geek Psychology: Play Life Better
Aug 20, 2026 · 7 min · 4 segments
How do you turn off that relentless, brutal INFP inner critic? If you constantly struggle with self-blame, perfectionism, or replay past mistakes on a loop, this video will change how you view your…
Matt ShermanHost
I put out a questionnaire and two hundred and six INFPs asked me for help, and one of them said, "How, as an INFP that's so reflective, can reduce blaming herself? Because I sometimes see that can lead to negative feeling." So how do we turn this brutal INFP inner critic into something that is helpful and supportive to us? Well, first of all, I know that you would not treat other people like that, so stop treating yourself like that.

And in order to do that, we can go inward and we can see ourselves as fractal beings.
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