From his early discovery of Dr. Robert Cialdini’s work 26 years ago, Patrick has dedicated his career to teaching the science of influence that actually works. As a certified trainer, coach, and author of *How to Hear Yes More Often*, he equips professionals and young adults with tools for clearer, more impactful communication.
The core takeaway? Most decisions (90-95%) happen via our fast, intuitive System 1 brain. Learning Cialdini’s principles lets you give people the mental shortcuts they need to say yes quickly and confidently—whether in job interviews, sales, negotiations, or everyday life. In an AI-driven world where interpersonal skills rank as a top-3 priority, starting early can dramatically alter your career trajectory and avoid years of wasted effort.
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- Podcast: Ethical Persuasion Unlocked
- Book: How to Hear Yes More Often
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\*Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction to ethical persuasion with Patrick van der Burght
00:59 – Patrick’s “aha” moment with Cialdini’s work
01:35 – Persuasion in everyday life and why it’s a learnable skill
02:50 – Why young adults and students should master persuasion early
06:07 – The problem with calling it a “soft skill”
07:48 – How the brain makes decisions (System 1 vs System 2)
12:10 – Persuasion across the customer journey and relationship stages
13:47 – Building relationships, reducing uncertainty, and creating motivation
17:07 – When to accept “no” and knowing it’s not manipulation
20:08 – Improving your odds with science-backed techniques
21:07 – Resources: podcast, book, free downloads, and training
22:43 – Why persuasion remains timeless in an overloaded world
24:17 – Final thoughts and call to action
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