Victoria AlarioHost
And yeah, I think we should just get right into it, because I am such a principled person, [lip smack] and I feel like I've talked about this a lot.

I know that I've had this discussion online in regards to like, it's not what you did, it's how you did it.

I feel like a lot of people care more about the outcome or the result of something rather than the bigger picture, rather than the intention, rather than how they moved.

And that is what we are watching right now, and I am finding extremely, extremely frustrating.

I find it frustrating in general to argue with people who don't see the principle.

Like, I feel like I've had this issue with so many people in life where like I, I-- Actually, I just recorded a TikTok and I, I, I'm just gonna give like a very brief example, and it's-- I can't even think of this actually being a real example for me.

It's just an example of something that I could think of that's very like tangible.

And it's like if, if somebody is having a party and they don't invite you, but you actually happen to have plans already for that day anyway, so, so you kind of-- maybe you couldn't have gone or maybe you could have, but you would've had to like rearrange your plans, and the party host that did not invite you doesn't know that.

For all they know, you could've very much been available, but they still did not invite you.

So if you happen to confront them and say like, "What the heck? Why didn't you invite me?" And they turned around and said, "Well, you couldn't come anyway, so what difference does it make?" That's not the point.

The point is you didn't know I couldn't come, so why didn't you include me? Why didn't you invite me? That's the principle.

You chose to leave me out, having no idea what my situation was, having no idea whether I had plans or not, just simply choosing to not include me.

And now, yeah, based on that point, based on that principle, based on those intentions, your intentions, that upset me.

So I always-- I like to give that example whenever I talk about this, because that's a very real world, like easy, tangible way to comprehend this, okay? So that's an example that I've given, you know, in, in the TikTok video.

I've, I've said that a million times before, whether or not I could even relate, 'cause I can't even think about giving a fuck about being invited somewhere.

So it's always about that intention, and that is what we are witnessing [swallows] with the boys and the girls in "Love Island." I would say really the biggest culprits have to be Casey, sincere, and Corbin.

And yeah, I think we should just get right into it, because I am such a principled person, [lip smack] and I feel like I've talked about this a lot.

I know that I've had this discussion online in regards to like, it's not what you did, it's how you did it.

I feel like a lot of people care more about the outcome or the result of something rather than the bigger picture, rather than the intention, rather than how they moved.

And that is what we are watching right now, and I am finding extremely, extremely frustrating.

I find it frustrating in general to argue with people who don't see the principle.

Like, I feel like I've had this issue with so many people in life where like I, I-- Actually, I just recorded a TikTok and I, I, I'm just gonna give like a very brief example, and it's-- I can't even think of this actually being a real example for me.

It's just an example of something that I could think of that's very like tangible.

And it's like if, if somebody is having a party and they don't invite you, but you actually happen to have plans already for that day anyway, so, so you kind of-- maybe you couldn't have gone or maybe you could have, but you would've had to like rearrange your plans, and the party host that did not invite you doesn't know that.

For all they know, you could've very much been available, but they still did not invite you.

So if you happen to confront them and say like, "What the heck? Why didn't you invite me?" And they turned around and said, "Well, you couldn't come anyway, so what difference does it make?" That's not the point.

The point is you didn't know I couldn't come, so why didn't you include me? Why didn't you invite me? That's the principle.

You chose to leave me out, having no idea what my situation was, having no idea whether I had plans or not, just simply choosing to not include me.

And now, yeah, based on that point, based on that principle, based on those intentions, your intentions, that upset me.

So I always-- I like to give that example whenever I talk about this, because that's a very real world, like easy, tangible way to comprehend this, okay? So that's an example that I've given, you know, in, in the TikTok video.

I've, I've said that a million times before, whether or not I could even relate, 'cause I can't even think about giving a fuck about being invited somewhere.

So it's always about that intention, and that is what we are witnessing [swallows] with the boys and the girls in "Love Island." I would say really the biggest culprits have to be Casey, sincere, and Corbin.
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