Equestrian Performance Mindset
Oct 4, 2026 · 21 min · 7 segments
What happens when you've finally reached the goal you've been working towards? You've had a string of great competitions. Your horse feels incredible. You're getting the results you've been hoping…
Jocelin LillienauHostLornaHostThe first thing that I, when I read this question, I was like, well, is this person now actually experiencing a trough, or a dip, or whatever we wanna call it, or is the person just expecting one to come? Like, if she's...
Is she still on the peak, and if she's rocking all, all her goals, achieving all those things, and then just because it's going so well, is she expecting it to come, or is she already experiencing the trough?
Yeah.
And I think, as always, it's the meaning that we make out of things, because I think this, this could go any which way.
My mind goes to is she frightened that things are going really well? Because I think once we've got something, suddenly we've got something to lose.
So once you've got it-
... you've, you've got it to lose.
And, you know, if you think you've had six brilliant competitions, what does it mean if the seventh one's awful if it doesn't work out?
What does it mean if you're winning your classes, which is a great position to be in, what does it mean when you're suddenly not in the placings anymore? What does it mean if your horse feels incredible and then suddenly it doesn't, and you get on one day and suddenly nothing works anymore? So I think the higher the peak feels, the further the potential fall can actually seem.
I love what you said there about, like, you know, you- you've done really well, so now you actually...
Yeah.
Yeah
Yeah.
[laughs]
... yeah, but I can't continue to live up to this expectation that I've now set for myself every single time, then m- [laughs] that become...
And, uh, it makes me think about, you know, a Isabell Werth or, um, you know, those, those d- top, top, top performers in the sport.
The first thing that I, when I read this question, I was like, well, is this person now actually experiencing a trough, or a dip, or whatever we wanna call it, or is the person just expecting one to come? Like, if she's...
Is she still on the peak, and if she's rocking all, all her goals, achieving all those things, and then just because it's going so well, is she expecting it to come, or is she already experiencing the trough?
Yeah.
And I think, as always, it's the meaning that we make out of things, because I think this, this could go any which way.
My mind goes to is she frightened that things are going really well? Because I think once we've got something, suddenly we've got something to lose.
So once you've got it-
... you've, you've got it to lose.
And, you know, if you think you've had six brilliant competitions, what does it mean if the seventh one's awful if it doesn't work out?
What does it mean if you're winning your classes, which is a great position to be in, what does it mean when you're suddenly not in the placings anymore? What does it mean if your horse feels incredible and then suddenly it doesn't, and you get on one day and suddenly nothing works anymore? So I think the higher the peak feels, the further the potential fall can actually seem.
I love what you said there about, like, you know, you- you've done really well, so now you actually...
Yeah.
Yeah
Yeah.
[laughs]
... yeah, but I can't continue to live up to this expectation that I've now set for myself every single time, then m- [laughs] that become...
And, uh, it makes me think about, you know, a Isabell Werth or, um, you know, those, those d- top, top, top performers in the sport.
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