On the Other Side of Fear

So, okay, think about the person that hasn't been to counseling, that don't know what counseling.

You know, everybody has heard about, oh, I'll go to counseling, right? So speak to the person...

That don't understand how impactful counseling is, right? And you and me know this because of just being in the atmosphere.

We understand that our childhood... made up who we are as the adult people right and some of us still live some of the children some of us are still a child in an adult body am I right yeah

we get stuck

So, all right.

So talk to the person that's watching the podcast that don't understand that, like that don't like break that down a little bit, like how your childhood can affect who you are today and what you're doing.

And even if you like, even if you want to break it down in a certain area, like fear or abuse, if you was abused, it could affect you here.

Can you give me something?

Well, I won't go that deep.

So I will say somebody who's hyper-independent.

Okay.

Explain what that is.

So hyper-independent is somebody who is difficult for them to ask for help.

Okay.

They're not used to having people to rely on, so they know that if something has to get done, I'm going to do it.

And I think we all kind of like that.

have touched on that.

I know I'm kind of hyper independent.

I'm the oldest of my siblings, so I had different responsibilities.

And they have this thing now called the oldest daughter syndrome thing.

And it's it's true it's a real thing it's a real thing so the responsibilities are different for the um eldest daughter and i know me myself growing up you know it was things i had to do to make sure everything was straight and when my mom was at work okay so as far as hyper independent um those people are, I'm going to say in a workplace, um, it's hard for those people to ask for help.

Okay.

It's hard for those people to rely on others.

And what happens is they become overwhelmed because they're trying to do everything by themselves.