Weight Loss- The Wrong Voice influencing your success. Part 2

father the the imitator the wrong voice the voice of what I like to call complacency and comfort like it's exactly what that's exactly what it creates in my life it almost won in a different area of my life so there's there's a kind of how do I say this There's a version of myself I want to be.

There's a kind of mother that I want to be.

There's the kind of wife that I want to become.

But sometimes, and you're probably going to find yourself relating to this, I get stuck in these cycles of conformity and comfort.

And so this past Sunday morning, I woke up and I was getting ready for church.

Actually, I was in the middle of my Bible study when this hit me.

And I realized I'm not being the woman that I say I want to be right.

I knew the forecast was for a beautiful sunny day.

My goodness.

I hope you can hear me because that wind just picked up.

So I knew the forecast was going to be amazing.

And my default Sunday morning, Sherry Kapila routine was in the forefront of my mind.

And I immediately saw it as the pattern.

that I was conforming to.

Because my default pattern would have been to just go to church, right? Go to church, after church, go to the grocery store, fill up the car with gas, come home, unload everything, clean the house, and then be too tired to do anything meaningful with our family.

And then later I would find myself like, being frustrated and irritated with myself.

I'd be sad that we didn't do anything yet again.

And if I would have obeyed that familiar pattern, I would have had the same results over and over.

So I just decided I'm going to do something different.

I'm going to show up as the version of myself that I want to be.

And so I sent a group text to everybody.

I made an Alexa announcement, said, hey, after church today, who wants to go to Geneva on the lake and have lunch at Eddie's Grill? And immediately everybody started responding, right? And so I told him on the way to church, I said, Okay, we're gonna go after church, we're immediately going to go to the grocery store, everybody make a mental list of what you want to get.

And then we're gonna, we're gonna run in, we're gonna pick it up, we're gonna come home, everybody's gonna help unload the groceries.

And then we're gonna go right to Geneva on the lake, we're gonna spend time together, we're gonna hang out, we're gonna enjoy the day.

And then afterwards, as a family, we're all going to come home and just do a power hour of cleaning.