Stop Reacting. Start Creating. with Josselyne Herman-Saccio

It's such a powerful story.

And what I hear underneath that is something that I think a lot of high performing people experience, which is competence can hide misalignment for a very long time.

Right.

Because when you're capable, you can make almost anything work.

You can

compensate.

That is a red flag for me.

When I say I'll make it work, I have to stop.

It's like fingernails on a blackboard because so many times in my life, it's like, well, I'll make it work.

I'll make it work.

You don't need to live in a world where you're making things work.

You could actually live in a world where things work.

And it doesn't require you to force something to happen.

And that was also a big breakthrough in my life because I could make anything work, right? And schedules and this, and I had three kids and raising them in New York City and working on the weekends.

I mean, it was a lot to make work.

But when you get muscle in this methodology, you never have that experience again.

You never have to go down that road again.

And that road seems attractive.

So it's almost like, what are you talking about? I'm like, why wouldn't I want to go down that work of making stuff work? Because it's a prison and it robs you of any kind of fulfillment and satisfaction, even if you make it work.

Yeah.

My experience is that most entrepreneurs who are in this space is their belief is because I'm producing results.

You know, nobody's necessarily stopping and asking whether the way they're producing those results is actually working for them.

Yeah.

And a lot of times those entrepreneurs and founders are the first ones to have health problems and let their well-being go because they're not designing their life.

They are reacting effectively to everything that's coming at them.

It's such a powerful story.

And what I hear underneath that is something that I think a lot of high performing people experience, which is competence can hide misalignment for a very long time.

Right.

Because when you're capable, you can make almost anything work.

You can

compensate.

That is a red flag for me.

When I say I'll make it work, I have to stop.

It's like fingernails on a blackboard because so many times in my life, it's like, well, I'll make it work.

I'll make it work.

You don't need to live in a world where you're making things work.

You could actually live in a world where things work.

And it doesn't require you to force something to happen.

And that was also a big breakthrough in my life because I could make anything work, right? And schedules and this, and I had three kids and raising them in New York City and working on the weekends.

I mean, it was a lot to make work.

But when you get muscle in this methodology, you never have that experience again.

You never have to go down that road again.

And that road seems attractive.

So it's almost like, what are you talking about? I'm like, why wouldn't I want to go down that work of making stuff work? Because it's a prison and it robs you of any kind of fulfillment and satisfaction, even if you make it work.

Yeah.

My experience is that most entrepreneurs who are in this space is their belief is because I'm producing results.

You know, nobody's necessarily stopping and asking whether the way they're producing those results is actually working for them.

Yeah.

And a lot of times those entrepreneurs and founders are the first ones to have health problems and let their well-being go because they're not designing their life.

They are reacting effectively to everything that's coming at them.