Should He Have Stayed With Her? | Void of Reddit

okay the original post was posted posted posted on may 23rd 2023 okay in relationship advice yes in relationship advice okay i met my wife i'll call her anna during our first year of university we dated through university and got married right after her graduation And sure enough, that's what she had.

The good news, if it can be considered good news, was that the breast cancer she had was extremely treatable with chemo and radiation.

Based on her family history, the doctor also recommended a double mastectomy for her.

This put Anna into a really dark place.

I suggested she go to therapy, but she outright refused and she never... wanted to hear me suggest that again so i did my best to be that's wild sorry i'm

so sorry

i'm

so sorry that i'm sighing so much through this because i'm just sighing because i have so much to say but i'm trying to hold it so yeah that's fair

okay so i did my best to be encouraging and supportive to her i took time off of work to be at every appointment with her i took on 100 of the household chores both inside and out I did all of the shopping.

I drove Anna everywhere she wanted to go.

I planned a special date.

I gave her an hour long foot massage every night.

I did literally whatever I could.

God damn.

Okay.

I'm sorry.

Ugh.

I

mean, I want to cry because I'm like, first of all, like, why am I so emotional?

I'm really sad.

Just

keep going.

It's okay.

She's crazy.

But I understand.