Oct 27, 2026 · 57 min · 10 segments
We're talking about navigating app culture, red flags, green flags, and whether or not we are datable after 40! Get in on the conversation!
Dating over 40 comes with, let me see, divorce energy, kids and custody calendars, careers and bedtime routines, gym memberships.
With that, we don't use...
Guilty.
Very guilty.
And a deep desire for peace.
Translation, we're not auditioning for chaos.
We want consistency, clear communication, low cortisol levels, and low blood pressure.
low cortisol levels um that's my first time hearing that so that's right uh i just like stress
levels
that's the gap for me folks say they are ready for love but ask one question with a little depth and now they are acting like their phones get cut off so if you ask somebody basically hey i'm thinking about getting serious with you you know i want to get to know you a little bit better Sometime they freaking, AKA, go shoot.
Definitely me some time
ago.
Yeah.
I saw something the other day where this guy had told this girl about, oh, I really think I could spend the rest of my life with you.
She said, that's
cute.
Yeah.
That's kind of a freaking slap in the face pretty much.
Kind of.
Yeah, kind of.
Because ready means emotionally available and logistically available.
Not, I have time every other Thursday from 610 to 715.
It
means you
can hold space for someone else and yourself physically and emotionally.
Dating over 40 comes with, let me see, divorce energy, kids and custody calendars, careers and bedtime routines, gym memberships.
With that, we don't use...
Guilty.
Very guilty.
And a deep desire for peace.
Translation, we're not auditioning for chaos.
We want consistency, clear communication, low cortisol levels, and low blood pressure.
low cortisol levels um that's my first time hearing that so that's right uh i just like stress
levels
that's the gap for me folks say they are ready for love but ask one question with a little depth and now they are acting like their phones get cut off so if you ask somebody basically hey i'm thinking about getting serious with you you know i want to get to know you a little bit better Sometime they freaking, AKA, go shoot.
Definitely me some time
ago.
Yeah.
I saw something the other day where this guy had told this girl about, oh, I really think I could spend the rest of my life with you.
She said, that's
cute.
Yeah.
That's kind of a freaking slap in the face pretty much.
Kind of.
Yeah, kind of.
Because ready means emotionally available and logistically available.
Not, I have time every other Thursday from 610 to 715.
It
means you
can hold space for someone else and yourself physically and emotionally.
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