Jul 23, 2026 · 22 min · 11 segments
**In this episode, I cover:** - What the Law of Polarity actually says about energy, contrast, and charge — and why relationships without it go flat - Jung's anima and animus: the masculine within…
Leanne OatenHost
And this really just means that it's an energy that needs contrast to generate that charge.
And so when it comes to this, when we're talking about relationships, it is really important to have this because if we don't have this, it neutralizes the relationship.
It can become toxic if the male is in his feminine, he's not in his leadership and it can become toxic because he is not seeing his role as the provider, protector, and leader of the relationship.
So a lot of women in their feminist ways and their beliefs, I'm not knocking feminism, but I also think it can shoot us in the foot.
It's the whole thing like I can do anything a man can do so that I'm going to attract a woman.
You know, if you're a heterosexual woman, you want a man that's in his masculinity.
So if you come in
ready to take care of everything and be manager of the world, then that's exactly what you end up attracting.
It's always, what about you? What about what you're doing? What about me? And you know, what are you bringing and where's your half? You know, it's that kind of thing.
This I believe is what creates a lot of conflict and it creates a lack of sexual spark.
When we don't have this and we have a man that's too much in his feminine, the woman is busting balls and taking care of everything.
And if he's in his healthy masculine, meaning he doesn't want to dominate and control you.
And this doesn't mean that you don't lead, that you don't have your own purpose and you don't have your own money and you don't have your own career.
But having a provider man means he's financially secure and he can lead the family or at least not make it worse.
Like he's not being financially reckless, like gambling, like shopping and spending and buying all kinds of expensive man toys.
Meanwhile, everybody is expected to go with less, right? So when we're talking about the family unit, this is where I think a lot of women go wrong because a lot of us women who have wounding around being vulnerable, we enter relationships like the, you know, the doer of all things.
And this really just means that it's an energy that needs contrast to generate that charge.
And so when it comes to this, when we're talking about relationships, it is really important to have this because if we don't have this, it neutralizes the relationship.
It can become toxic if the male is in his feminine, he's not in his leadership and it can become toxic because he is not seeing his role as the provider, protector, and leader of the relationship.
So a lot of women in their feminist ways and their beliefs, I'm not knocking feminism, but I also think it can shoot us in the foot.
It's the whole thing like I can do anything a man can do so that I'm going to attract a woman.
You know, if you're a heterosexual woman, you want a man that's in his masculinity.
So if you come in
ready to take care of everything and be manager of the world, then that's exactly what you end up attracting.
It's always, what about you? What about what you're doing? What about me? And you know, what are you bringing and where's your half? You know, it's that kind of thing.
This I believe is what creates a lot of conflict and it creates a lack of sexual spark.
When we don't have this and we have a man that's too much in his feminine, the woman is busting balls and taking care of everything.
And if he's in his healthy masculine, meaning he doesn't want to dominate and control you.
And this doesn't mean that you don't lead, that you don't have your own purpose and you don't have your own money and you don't have your own career.
But having a provider man means he's financially secure and he can lead the family or at least not make it worse.
Like he's not being financially reckless, like gambling, like shopping and spending and buying all kinds of expensive man toys.
Meanwhile, everybody is expected to go with less, right? So when we're talking about the family unit, this is where I think a lot of women go wrong because a lot of us women who have wounding around being vulnerable, we enter relationships like the, you know, the doer of all things.
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