It’s not death, it’s goodbye
Why chasing forever misses the point
Apr 22, 2026 · 1 hr · 16 segments
What if grief isn’t something to fix but something to understand? In this episode, psychotherapist Megan Devine breaks down the truth about loss, why we’re so uncomfortable with it, and how our…
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Steve BurnsHostMegan DevineGuest
Megan is a psychotherapist, writer, podcaster, and also one of the very clearest voices I think we have on grief.

I love this title, by the way, for reasons that don't even have to do with grief, and I can't wait to talk to her about that.

Um, that is a book that helped shift the conversation away from fixing grief to actually kinda understanding it.

Um, she has a new book, How to Carry What Can't Be Fixed, which asks exactly that.

How do we live with that which cannot, will not be resolved? Um, Megan tells the truth about grief in a way that is, um, unflinching, a bit raw sometimes, very honest and very real, and I'm really into it.

Megan is a psychotherapist, writer, podcaster, and also one of the very clearest voices I think we have on grief.

I love this title, by the way, for reasons that don't even have to do with grief, and I can't wait to talk to her about that.

Um, that is a book that helped shift the conversation away from fixing grief to actually kinda understanding it.

Um, she has a new book, How to Carry What Can't Be Fixed, which asks exactly that.

How do we live with that which cannot, will not be resolved? Um, Megan tells the truth about grief in a way that is, um, unflinching, a bit raw sometimes, very honest and very real, and I'm really into it.
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It’s not death, it’s goodbye
Why chasing forever misses the point
Airplane realization: mom is gone
A sudden wave hits at cruising altitude
Who grief timelines really serve
Deadlines don’t heal broken hearts
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