HERE IS WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT DIFFERENT ATTRACTION STYLES

So let's look at each one.

Sexual attraction is defined, the core definition is a strong urge or pull to engage in sexual activity or arousal with a specific person.

So when I am sexually attracted to a man, I think I wanna suck his dick.

I think I want him to eat my pussy.

I wonder, what would it feel like to fuck this person? I am sexually attracted to them.

The focus of sexual attraction is sexual acts, lust, or physical intimacy of a sexual nature.

That sexual nature is there because a hug is a form of physical intimacy, but it's not sexual.

Hugging is actually a form of non-sexual physical intimacy.

Yes.

If somebody hugs you in a way that is sexual, they're not, they are sexually attracted to you.

Hugging is actually non-sexual, okay? Now, you can feel sexual attraction without knowing a person well.

This is important because this is where casual sex plays in.

Because you see, you hear a lot of people say things like, "Oh, I'm a demisexual.

I need emotional connection be- before I can fuck somebody," right? See that demisexual? You see the sexual at the end.

That means that, see, even if you are like, "Oh, I have to build emotional connection first," you wanna fuck the person.

That is the important thing.

You want to fuck the person.

That's why it's demisexual.

Sexual is at the end.

You can't es- escape the sexual part.

So you can tell yourself all you want that, no, no, no, no, no, we formed an emotional connection first.

We're talking for months before we finally have sex.

That's your business.

You wanted to fuck the person.

You just needed to form an emotional connection with the person first.