Jul 21, 2026 · 18 min · 11 segments
Postpartum moms need more than a meal train and a quick “How’s the baby?” They need to be seen, supported, and cared for, too. In this episode of the *A Bridge to Motherhood Podcast*, Danielle talks…
Danielle BrunerHost
But I believe the church is meant to be a place of community, encouragement, support.

But I also think that sometimes we have really good intentions and still miss what postpartum mothers actually need.

And sometimes instead of helping carry the burdens of new motherhood, we accidentally add more to them.

So I think one of the first things we as a church get wrong is is the expectation that a woman should return to normal very quickly after having a baby.

And within a few weeks, the questions start like, oh, when are you coming back to church? Are you ready to serve again? Are you going to join this Bible study? Are you coming to the women's event? And of course, we don't mean these things in any negative way whatsoever, right? We are missing our friends.

But the problem is that the postpartum season is not simply a short interruption in a woman's life, right? Like she's not just taking a few weeks off.

And especially if she's a first-time mom, she is learning an entirely new role.

And if she already has children, she's learning how to mother a new child while also caring for the children she already has.

And sometimes we expect a mom to be ready to jump back into church life before she even... has had any time to figure out how to get out of the house with a baby.

And depending on what time of year it is, maybe it is in the middle of flu season and she is trying to protect her baby from germs.

after birth and she needs more time to heal before she can jump back into the fold.

But I believe the church is meant to be a place of community, encouragement, support.

But I also think that sometimes we have really good intentions and still miss what postpartum mothers actually need.

And sometimes instead of helping carry the burdens of new motherhood, we accidentally add more to them.

So I think one of the first things we as a church get wrong is is the expectation that a woman should return to normal very quickly after having a baby.

And within a few weeks, the questions start like, oh, when are you coming back to church? Are you ready to serve again? Are you going to join this Bible study? Are you coming to the women's event? And of course, we don't mean these things in any negative way whatsoever, right? We are missing our friends.

But the problem is that the postpartum season is not simply a short interruption in a woman's life, right? Like she's not just taking a few weeks off.

And especially if she's a first-time mom, she is learning an entirely new role.

And if she already has children, she's learning how to mother a new child while also caring for the children she already has.

And sometimes we expect a mom to be ready to jump back into church life before she even... has had any time to figure out how to get out of the house with a baby.

And depending on what time of year it is, maybe it is in the middle of flu season and she is trying to protect her baby from germs.

after birth and she needs more time to heal before she can jump back into the fold.
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