William Hayes
American former American football player
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Aug 28, 2025
Falling Behind: Where have all the men gone?
31:22
William Hayes is CEO of Boys' Latin, and that percentage he cited is many, many times higher than the national average.
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31:31William HayesGUEST
And I think one of the things that students allude to, is they are able to have conversations with people who experience the same things, and I think we're very transparent and honest with kids about, "This happened in the world, and this is how it's impacting me as an older Black man.
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31:45William HayesGUEST
Um, how is it impacting you?" And so just giving space for them to know that they're not alone.
32:49
So given that, how does William Hayes so successfully recruit so many men to his school?
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32:55William HayesGUEST
Every way possible, leveraging both my personal network and the leaders' personal network or who you've encountered in the past, who you've worked with.
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33:03William HayesGUEST
We also have a certification program that we partner with, um, Drexel University.
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33:08William HayesGUEST
And so we pay for a Black male to come be a resident to get their certification at the school and to hopefully take a position.
Falling Behind: The opportunity gap 
8:48
And the third thing that makes it different, it is a public school, but all boys.
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8:53William HayesGUEST
I think the goal for the all boys was to really be more specific and targeted in terms of the full experience we were able to offer boys, and to push boys outside of their comfort zone socially, both to engage with one another, but to also try new experiences, where I think socially when you have mixed gender groups, boys tend to fall to the background in some areas, specifically like the arts or more social emotional intelligence in conversations there.
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10:23speaker_17UNKNOWN
Hayes describes the thinking in typical schools as...
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10:31William HayesGUEST
And so as long as the boy is sitting quiet and following directions, we won't probe him or engage him because we don't want to disrupt this, like, calm, positive presence, right? We don't want to poke and push to the point of frustration because we are fearful that if he gets frustrated, we won't be able to control the behavior to get him back to there." And so what you find is teachers unconsciously won't ask the third question of the kid, right? And if a kid doesn't get it right the first time, they won't say, "Try it again a second time." And that's where the learning takes place, like the, the learning is kind of this, the zone of proximal frustration.
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11:07William HayesGUEST
Like, you want to get them to the point of frustration, but I don't think we as a school or a system know what to do when kids are frustrated.
Falling Behind: Where have all the men gone?
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33:22William HayesGUEST
For me, growing up, you know, my dad was incarcerated, so I- I really didn't build a relationship with my dad till I was 14.
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33:28William HayesGUEST
Thinking about our boys here, sixth through eighth, you may not have that presence in your home, but, you know, you come to school every day and them having that access to Black men who care about them, who's not afraid to let them cry or hold them accountable, put their arms around him, hug him, those things are so important for a young Black boy in their formative years, and it shapes how they not only view themselves, how they treat other people, how they treat women, right? How...
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33:55William HayesGUEST
Their relationship to the world, their experiences is all rooted in really their experience when they come to school.
34:10
So given that, how does William Hayes so successfully recruit so many men to his school?
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34:16William HayesGUEST
Every way possible leveraging both my personal network and the leaders' personal network of who have you encountered in the past, who have you worked with.
Falling Behind: The opportunity gap 
9:34
And the third thing that makes it different, it is a public school, but all boys.
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9:39William HayesGUEST
I think the goal for the all boys was to really be more specific and targeted in terms of the full experience that we're able to offer boys, and to push boys outside of their comfort zone socially, both to engage with one another, but to also try new experiences, where I think socially, when you have mixed gender groups, boys tend to fall to the background in some areas, specifically like the arts or more social/emotional intelligence in conversations there.
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11:13William HayesGUEST
"We really just want boys to be managed in the class, behaviorally, and so as long as the boy is sitting quiet and following directions, we won't probe him or engage him, because we don't want to disrupt this, like, calm, positive presence," right? We don't want to poke and push to the point of frustration, because we are fearful that, if he gets frustrated, we won't be able to control the behavior to get him back to there.
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11:38William HayesGUEST
And so what you find is teachers unconsciously won't ask the third question of the kid, right? And if a kid doesn't get it right the first time, they won't say, "Try it again a second time." And that's where the learning takes place.
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11:53William HayesGUEST
Like, you want to get them to the point of frustration, but I don't think we, as a school or a system, know what to do when kids are frustrated.