We've added a new piece called The Someday Letter, which is about going out at least 10 years in the future and really allowing yourself to kind of dream, like, what kind of life do I want to be living? What kind of life do we want to be living? And we're putting an anchor out in the future around the things that matter most to us that is unfettered by your current position.

Well, and I love that because it just allows both people to dream kind of on their own terms.

And I know for you and I, that's just been really valuable to understand even what a dream might look like 10 years in the future.

And I know for some, that's so hard.

And I can't emphasize it enough, which is this idea that goal setting is a muscle.

You start out with a little baby sense of it.

And then...

No, we

Why did you guys decide to do that?

Well, I think, I mean, to be clear, there was a transition and it was difficult, you know, because I had been a full-time stay-at-home mom.

So there were definitely some, like, going on while we worked it out.

But Jay's always been great about encouraging me to get help.

Yeah.

And so I just always thought, you know, I can buy my time.

You know, rich people buy their time and poor people sell their time.

yeah,