Um, how has adding kink and cuckolding to your relationship, to your marriage that started out vanilla, um, how has it affected your relationship with your husband, Scott?

Um, there was definitely times, like you said, where he was really diving in deep where it was a little maybe more distant sexually.

Um, but then as we both started to realize there's things we're excited about, there's things you're excited about and I'm excited about, and we're both willing to try what the other person is interested in, then we started to get really close and, um, closer emotionally, closer physically.

Um, we started to have better sex, um, more frequent sex, and it's something that's really important to us, and I think very important to all relationships to have really fun, enjoyable sex.

It brings people closer together.

And so I think overall it's been a really great thing for our relationship.

I felt closer to you, um, and it's brought a lot of excitement and energy into our dynamic.

[laughs] Why do you think that there's so very little, seems like so very little interest from women out there?

Huh

... starts to wake me up a little bit, and I'm like, "Okay." And all of a sudden it feels like someone, like, very angrily or, like, frustrated, like, like, kicks the corner, like, the front corner.

And then it, like, really jostles me.

It's, like, making me sway back and forth.

I'm like, "Oh." And I'm thinking it's his grandpa.

Now mind you, like, these people have known me, like, my whole life.

So, like, I don't know.

Right.

¡Comenzamos!

[música alegre] Hola, mi nombre es Victoria, tengo nueve años y les contaré una leyenda tradicional puertorriqueña que dice así: Cuenta una vieja leyenda que en la hermosa isla de Puerto Rico había una tradición muy especial entre los animales: las fiestas del bosque.

Todos los habitantes se reunían para divertirse, cantar, bailar y compartir momentos especiales.

Cada vez que se acercaba una nueva celebración, los animales trabajaban juntos para asegurarse de que todo saliera perfecto y se enrolaban entre grupos para hacerlo más divertido.

En una ocasión, las aves fueron las encargadas de organizar la fiesta.

Entonces se reunieron para planificar el evento.

Estaban tooodos, desde los pájaros más grandes hasta los más pequeñitos.

[risas] [melodía alegre] Algunos cuentos traviesos del archivo mágico de Había una vez quieren volver a ser escuchados.

I would say 70/30, yeah

... yeah, 65/35 hockey/sports.

And the TCG area was, like, all the way in the back.

I can't lie, that was so good for us because everyone had to walk through us to go there.

So if they-

Yeah.

I think that the first two days, like Thursday and Friday, the, it, they said it was a little bit slow.

Um, and then they ended up opening the entry to the TCG area-

Maude, you have a reconstructed pelvis and an attitude that just can't quit, and you deserve better than Mr. Milady Hum Num Num Novotski.

You're right.

I'm not gonna accept that.

You're right.

You know what? I, I'm gonna, I'm gonna hang out in the bathroom.

I'm gonna reapply my lipsticks.

I'm gonna do a confident pelvis first, so, and I'm gonna tell him, "Thank you.

Can you hang on?

I'll come back at the end with a few words of wrap up.

[upbeat music] Hi, this is Victoria, here to tell you about the time I accidentally started my virtual event planning side hustle.

It all started with my friend's birthday party.

She wanted to have a virtual celebration during the pandemic, and being the tech savvy person I am, I offered to help her set it up.

I had so much fun organizing the event, and I started to think about how I could do this for other people too.

I mentioned my potential service on social media, and before I knew it, I had my first client.

The client was a small business that wanted to hold a virtual networking event for their employees.

You're listening to Side Hustle School.

Victoria, you want to elaborate?

He says in the book that moms and dads don't ever do anything for themselves.

So right now you're being dad and you're being a provider and you're making sure everything's being accounted for.

But like I did last year after having Luca, I went to ballet class on Wednesday nights once a week, and that was mine.

Like, that was something that I got to do.

That was me.

It was something I enjoyed, and I'm grateful that I got to go.

Now let's check out their follow-ups.

Okay

... 'cause I feel like he voiced wanting to make a family trip out of it, and then my son, my oldest son, heard or was told that, you know, the whole family would be there for him at his competition, and I felt like he never gets that at na- at, like, the, the summer competition, he never gets that.

And so I felt like it was unfair to my older son to, like, cut back three days before going.

You got your wages garnished, right, Victoria? What was the story with that when you weren't paying your student loans and they garnished your wages?

For a while, I didn't have a bank account.

I wasn't able to get a bank account.

And so when I graduated college, I was giving my work paychecks to my mom, who was supposed to be paying my bills for me through her bank account, and somehow the student loan was the one that was continuously not paid.

I don't know how she got into that predicament.

What other things was he doing beyond carving your name in his arm?

For a while I thought it was just that one particular incident where he carved my name and everything, and then text messages and phone calls.

I would get so annoyed about it.

It was, it was nonstop calling me pretty much.

When he wasn't at my house, he was calling me, and I'm like...

To this day I have no earthly idea who gave him anything.

But he started calling me and, like, just normal things that you can also pass off as a teenager.

Did anyone in authority ever take you seriously?

Ay, de que se acaba el video, acá [risas] Creo que después de ahí fue un ratito, creo que serán unos días y luego te hablamos o ¿cómo fue?

Sí, o sea, me dijiste de que: "Nos vamos a ver pronto".

Yo te dije: "Bueno, perfecto, nos vemos luego".

Y como a la semana, eh, nos vimos para tomar otro café.

De hecho, fuimos por unos mariscos.

Ay, sí, es cierto.

Eh, como que platicamos de cómo iba a ser la dinámica de trabajo y todo.

Y ya después yo me tuve que ir a la boda de mi hermano y regresé a finales de agosto.