Okay.

Yeah, about 17 Um, and so yeah, it would happen at every party and all of that sort of stuff, and then I told one person, one singular person, if you're watching this, you're watching this, let me find you and your family.

[laughs] No, but, um, yeah, and Basingstoke is everybody's business is everybody's business, so it spread like wildfire.

Everybody knew about it.

Oh, heat, colleges.

All of a sudden, heat, colleges- Oh, shit ... everybody knew about it.

So you both outed him.

So to end the podcast, what advice would you give to your younger self?