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thing which our father didn't do properly was to tell his children exactly what was happening.

And I suppose, how would you do that? How would you do that? The book says, I think, that our eldest sibling, Mark, was told when he was 14 years old.

Well, maybe that was a bit late, you know.

And if our mother knew of this story, almost when they started going out together, you know.

James was very honest about this from the very beginning, and they decided to stay together.

But if they knew at that time, then maybe they should have introduced this future explosion, you might say, more gradually, so it wouldn't have been an explosion.

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