Trish Bendix

does it? Yes, it does still play out.

And actually, in Harper's Bazaar, after my article came out, Trish Bendix wrote a wonderful response piece about how she lives with a woman.

And this still plays out in her relationship.

And she says, you know, this is what happens.

Welcome back to our second part about everyone's favorite decade these days, the 90s and the aughts, which will surely come back next decade when everyone starts wearing what we wore in the aughts.

We left off just as we were about to talk about why did lesbian bars decline? I set you all up with a great question that came up between our three incredible guests, Trish Bendix, Merritt Sullivan, and Katherine Griffiths.

And the question is, did the L word kill the lesbian bar? Oh, will you find out? You will also hear all the other reasons for lesbian bar decline and how people reacted to that in the early years of going from Over 200 lesbian bars in the 80s to a mere 16 in 2019.

The nonprofit industrial complex will continue to both exalt and hunt our people.

So designing flyers, distributing them, collecting music.

That was my favorite bit and dancing.

And last, but surely and very much the opposite of least, is the fabulous Trish Bendix, who writes the substack LitFemme, is a brilliant cultural lesbian expert about everything.

I adore talking to her.