My

father was in the Vietnam War and he left when I was six months old.

I met him when I was later, but he had severe alcoholism and obviously a lot of issues from PTSD.

And then that translated into my siblings on both sides.

so my so my mom had addiction until the day she died pretty much addition you know pills um cocaine alcohol like you name it she married a man who actually had a crack addiction then they had my brother luckily my mom was clean when she gave birth to both of us but um She definitely married a lot of people with it.

You know, she had five marriages.

She was a beautiful woman.

But once we're out of the victimhood mindset,