What about that?

Well, you, you know, if you're...

Everybody's got a lot of stuff going on at this stage in life, whether it's kids or taking care of their parents or their career.

And I've noticed, you know, as in the last several years where maybe somebody I've been friends with for a long time, um, there'll be a text that I send or they send and you just miss it, and a couple of weeks goes by and you're like, "Oh, crap." Um, and then you, you text and apologize and then try to pick back up.

But I think if it's, if it's a healthy relationship, like both sides know what modern expectations should be and, um, how the back and forth is gonna go and not get, you know, freaked out or upset if somebody leaves you on read for [chuckles] a little bit of time.

And, um, it...

Yeah, so I, I think expectations and have certainly changed as you've got- as I've gotten older.

Um, or a mixture of both?