Would you mind sharing some pointers that you and your wife maybe tried to follow while serving in ministry and raising children?

We really worked at making it fun, and we involved our children a lot.

This is interesting because the arts were always a part of my personality.

My wife and I raised our children.

We took them to a play that was appropriate.

We would take them to the symphony.

We would expose them to culture.

It's not a drudgery, you know, it's something that you get to be a part of, you know.

what are we doing? If we're spending 25 years of our life on the phone, that's not self-control.

People literally are spending more time on their phones than they are asleep.

It's what we do most in our lives.

Now, the question is, is that healthy? Is that really what we should do and what God wants us to do.

So self-control is a huge issue.

What we don't understand is that a lot of this is out of our control because of all the algorithms and all of the dopamine loops that we are fed.

And that's where you're getting these people who are three, four hours into just scrolling and don't know when to stop.

It's out of our control.

But would you mind sharing some pointers that you and your wife maybe tried to follow while serving in ministry and raising children?

You know, we really worked at making it fun, and we involved our children a lot.

So this is interesting because the arts were always a part of my personality.

My wife and I raised our children.

We took them to a play that was appropriate.

We would take them to the symphony.

We would expose them to culture.

Why did you decide to write this book? Great