Yes

... which is adding to that and making it more difficult.

And one of the things that's the most common with people are, whether it's an athlete whose has, what's referred to as the yips or slumps and such, or, you know, every everyday person who's just trying to live their life and, you know, do better and handle all the things that life, the opportunities that life hands us, um, it's the ability to go into the public and perform.

And it, it isn't easy.

I mean, there are people that have unresolved issues.

This can be much more difficult because commonly they're triggered, whether it's something, you know, in terms of divorce, you're going to a class reunion and, you know, you can lie and say, "Well, you know, my husband got called out of town," or, "My wife d-" It's like, you know, people go, "Oh, okay," and maybe that's fine.

In that circumstances, it may be the best strategy.

... is that related to, like, EMDR in some way or-

And it really creates this area of possibility, right? Like there are some people that maybe this is the chance for them to dream again.

Yeah.

One of the things that's become clear to many of us, especially when it comes to performance, is that there's underlying issues that pretty much everybody has.

It really hasn't been acknowledged whether you want to say it nicely and say unresolved emotional issues or use terms like trauma or PTSD.

I don't think that it's possible to make it to be 18 years old and not have some kind of, at least what's referred to as small T traumas, right? The breakup of her first love or...

Just stuff that happens that makes, and we hold that commonly, maybe somewhat consciously, often unconsciously, and causes us to become stuck.

And then we avoid this or we change our pattern and we avoid things.

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