How can we become more connected with love? Because there's a lot of fear in the world.

Great question.

And thank you for mentioning that movement.

So I feel that because of where I was living, Beverly Hills, for most of my adult life and living a life that was pretty good.

And the type of houses I was living in, the types of places I go, the type of people that I work with, where my office was located.

It could be very easy to just get caught up.

Like, okay, look at this.

The podcast, the self-esteem and confidence mindset, we had a recent conversation on self-esteem and confidence, but I would love to hear what your definition of confidence is.

This is something that can really truly help change people's lives.

It was NFL players.

What happened, Travis, is that when I was still in college, I created a curriculum on how to kind of step up and step into a better life.

And that was based on the fact of me being from Compton, California, seven people in a two-bedroom apartment, and we were kind of like in a setback.

So I wanted to help inner-city kids.

So I got a little bit bold one day, and I called up the Miami Dolphins, found out some people that I could get in touch with, and I got three players that were very good players to say, hey, young guy, yeah, we're in.

So I did something in the city of Miami, and I got three dolphins and then did one in another city.

At what point did the Robert Downey Jr. thing come along?

joy.How have you trained yourself to live in the moment? I don't know if this is just the entrepreneurial curse, but so many people, they seem to attribute their happiness to a particular landmark, or, "When I get to this point in my career," or, "When I have X amount of freedom to be able to spend more time with my family, then I'll be happy," as opposed to being really grateful and being present in today.

I think that l- let's say if you come from a, a, a family of five children, um, you have to understand your position in those five children that are there.

If you're the, the first, the middle, uh, the last child, wherever you are in the, in the five children.

So I think that with me, I just always wanna know what my place is.

Um, I don't wanna be anything that I'm not.

Like, I'll give you an example.

I was in Houston, Texas, and I was talking to a very nice man on an airplane.

We have quite a lot of snowflakes that kinda crumble at the first bit of stress and trauma, and the reality is life is always going to show you those grenades, and there is times, some are prolonged periods of our life, where we have to get up, show up, and be the best version of ourselves and put other people and our mission beyond our immediate emotions.

Mm-hmm

... you know, first started from Compton, California, then to another part of Los Angeles, my dream was speaking to me because it has a voice.

So stopping, looking, and listening to what God is saying.

So there are things that are calling you because I think that they have always resided in you.

So I believe that God put those in us.

It's our calling.

Can you also be called away from something?

Yes, you can.

And they're like, they have to be like, it's like, as if they couldn't stay for another hour or two.

No, that makes sense.

So then monetizing side, I, I like what you, what you just said, that they could, uh, do that through another email.

So I would use my attorney.

He would, he would make the deal, then I would come in, and then I started to realize that, man, I'm more liked than I'm giving myself credit for.

And it wasn't like low self-esteem.

It's, it's almost like we were just taught that, you know, we had to be humble.

Hmm.

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So I go to his desk, he offers up three books.

He says, "You gotta be done in three weeks.

You have to check it out, like you do at a library." He had a card, I had to sign it.

I was only in sixth grade.

I read the book, and literally...All these years later, I'm, like, 30 years of age and I'm living on top.

I'm already known as the life coach to the stars.

Do you have an example that you remember, that you needed to shut that noise?