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Tim Arnall

Tim Arnall

Co-organizer (with Kira Arnall) of Shrine, an Austin, Texas event series for swinging, polyamory, and BDSM communities hosted at Colette Club Austin.

Sep 15, 2026

11:38
And trust.
11:40
Because of the trust that's there.
11:41
You have to have a really deep level of trust with a lot of different people.
11:45
Part of that is that you're trusting someone to, as you put it, Jackie, hurt you in a very specific way.
11:52
But also, like, for instance, our rope slinger community, those individuals who are really fascinated with rope or like to be suspended or those types of things, that's a really in that moment because for the person, yeah, it's very meditative, it's very transcendental, like they'll kind of shift into a different mind space.
12:18
We often call that subspace.
12:21
But the point is that you're able to connect with this person on a more deeper level that is not really frequently found in other types of things.

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