Yeah.

Actually, I've been doing that for three years.

And so for me, I have to say I never had a really big culture of communication with my parents.

We were quite estranged or, I don't know, it's just immigrant parents, you know, having a shit ton of expectations from you and you're just... you uh it's hard you know to talk to your parents as if they were friends i never had that i do not know how that feels and we have had our ups and downs my parents my dad is like a very like he's a dictator.

It's like a dictator, like type of guy.

Um, especially me as a daughter, you know, firstborn daughter.

Um, I think he was also firstborn, super fierce, problematic daughter.

Yeah.