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Tamara Tan

Tamara Tan

Cross-cultural communication coach and executive coach specializing in East-West cultural differences; based in Waukee, Iowa.

Jun 23, 2026

19:21
Not far, this is the 90s, not far, right? Yeah, it's not that far.
19:26
I mean, there was people, you know, their families were killed and their friends are Serbian.
19:30
And the family was killed, you know, by Serbian.
19:32
And this is why, to me, I was kind of like, well, we need to let this go, people.
19:36
Because playing the victim card, living in that negativity, you're constantly, like, reaffirming that mindset of victimization.
19:43
And then you can actually never get out of that mindset.
19:45
So you kind of live in it.

21 MINS LATER

40:43
Is there a way to make it work? Yeah.

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