Basically, what do parents get tripped up in in, like, everyday things that they're trying to solve, like little problems, that they're not realizing those aren't really that big a deal? It's the bigger, you know, decisions later.

Well, you know, you said it earlier, and it's a really good point, and I, I, I do talk about this in one of my podcasts, where we think every single day is a brand-new day.

You know, we, we, we are experiencing something new, and I, you know, part of stress on anyone's, in anyone's life is experiencing something new.

When we get out of our comfort zone and we're doing something new, it's highly stressful.

And when you think about parenting in that way, it's like every single day with our child is, is a day we've never seen.

It's a new phase.

It's a new age.

[laughs] I wanna ask you, I know it depends on the kid, though, what is okay for me to give them a voice in?

Yes.

So I'm thinking, "How can I teach parents to be in prepare mode, prepared mode, and how can I take all that I've learned, distill it, and package it in a way that makes parenting easier?"That again, is repeatable, is a framework.

And again, my business brain works that way because I needed it that way.

In essence, what we're doing is we're ...

I've got, my system is preparing parents in advance, so we have a way, you know, I have a way of doing this through patterning, looking at patterns, interrupting the patterns, figuring out what makes you yell, or whatever it is you're trying to change.

So we start big picture.

We start with goals.

Mm.