Yes.

And they tend to hide this anguish.

I mean, deep, deep anguish for their children.

They don't wanna put their children out in the public either, in the sphere to talk about them.

So it's an area that when I started to open up, Zondra and I would open up.

And again, we love our children.

They haven't written us off, which some parents it's happened.

Mm-hmm.

What do you think are some of the more popular means that God's people utilize to respond or make decisions even, even on a daily basis?

Well, I, I listed them because I...

There are so many of them that either don't use or be very cautious of and how you rely on them.

Obviously, misusing the Bible, that ha- happens a lot, verses out of context.

Personal advice, godly people can advise you wrongly.

Uh, circumstances is a big one.

They're, they're going with the flow rather than God uses his providence, but not for decision-making, but to bring you up to a place you have to make a biblically informed decision.

Mm