But I started by asking him how his dad column started in The Guardian back in 2015. my

wife was reminding me of it just the other day in that like because it was my son's it was it was his eighth birthday last week so we were you know reminiscing and she was like remember when you uh i'd just given birth and you fucked up I sort of stuck around for four hours and I was like, okay, well I've got, uh, you know, this doesn't seem to be going anywhere.

Like you're very tired.

The baby's sleeping.

I'm going to try and get some sleep.

And it was a 45 minute walk home from the hospital.

And I just started kind of on my phone writing down everything that happened.

but so some of them like that some of them are jump kicks are they