Mm-hmm.

If you can accept that, that's a step in the right direction.

The second thing is you can't give yourself feedback on things you think.

You can only give yourself feedback on things you do.

That's really important.

So when you're not really going to change unless you do something, thinking is not enough.

That's fundamental.

And I just, for those people that... want to grow but find it difficult is it a case of reframing feedback is it or am I am I just totally off here what's the what's your view

So, Hey, so you started your career in

computers, right? Yeah.

I mean, I've, I've, I tried to figure out how many jobs I've had in the course of my life.

I started out, my first real job job was hauling hay when I was, you know? Yeah.

And then I, from there I went to all kinds of stuff, but, Yeah, I wanted to get married right out of high school.

I tried going to college.

That didn't work.

I mean, what motivates you to give back like that?