You said something along the lines of

I was much more logical, more a case of when you're friends, there might be one little part of your friend's personality that you kind of ignore or you don't like and they just keep that away from you.

But then when you become lovers, you've got to love all of them.

And that little annoying thing, even initially when it's highly passionate and stuff, you can ignore and it doesn't bother you that much.

But then...

A year later, two years later, five years later, is that personality trait going to be problematic for you and just slowly build? I think that's the really hard thing, which thankfully we haven't found that yet.

So if you're trying all these different things and you're struggling to balance, I definitely think take a step back, take care of you first, eat the meal, drink the drink, have the sleep, and it'll still be there waiting for you in the next day.

Yeah.