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Shalmina Abji

Founder & CEO of ShowYourWorth.ai; former IBM Vice President; bestselling author on women's leadership advancement.

Jul 6, 2026

11:49
How many women do you think have actually done that work before they're already really like 10, 15 years into their career?
11:57
Yeah.
11:58
So, you know, it's a spectrum.
12:00
It's really hard to generalize and say 10% of the women have done this work.
12:05
I learned, based on my experience, most of us are driven by external circumstances.
12:13
So there's that group of women who show up to work and they essentially deliver what is expected of them.
12:24
So that becomes their definition of success.

10 MINS LATER

22:02
Thank you.
3:20
Can you share what these barriers were and how women like you can overcome them?
3:28
Yes.
3:28
So, you know, when you don't see leaders that look like you, that you don't identify with, it is very easy to settle for small successes.
3:39
It's not easy to envision yourself there.
3:42
And so that we create an internal barrier for ourselves because we don't feel that we are worthy of getting there.
3:51
And I discussed the fear of speaking up, for example, but it's also fear of failure.
3:57
It's also fear of stepping outside your comfort zone.

20 MINS LATER

23:59
And, Share some more about that and then what happened.

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