See, now that's something I can do.

Here's the thing.

Everyone thinks, oh man, I don't like those back.

Dude, I want to look like you.

I'm like, well, first of all, you probably couldn't, right? Like I'll throw a jab.

Like you probably couldn't.

You don't got the discipline.

do you

you know everything um but i need you guys to understand where he's coming from and what even makes him you know an authority here to be able to work with you and why he works with guys like myself and tommy when we have all clearly have tons of options and choices of people we can want to work with but we landed with sean and his team so so shawn go ahead and just go ahead and start or go ahead and share then a little bit of that you know that come up you know and then um and then let's go into and then i'll actually go into asking a little bit more detailed questions around like the how And the what?

Yeah, absolutely, man.

Well, I'm here in Santa Barbara, California.

This is where I grew up.

Beautiful beach town north of L.A. It's different than most of California.

We've got like our own little protective bubble here.

But I grew up, Chris, with all the opportunity in the world, man.

right because

And you mentioned the word obsessed, but do you think people are born with that? Or what do you think that is?

You know, I think it does have... to do with your personality.

It's innate, you know what I mean? I see it in my daughter, Scarlett.

She is that way.

She just got roller skates for Christmas, and at first she's fallen all over the place.

You know a little baby deer when they start walking, or a giraffe? That was her.

She just did not know how to roller skate.

And it allowed me to actually start working on myself instead of continuing to try to cover up those feelings and do the same thing over and over and over.

And you mentioned the word obsessed, but do you think people are born with that? Or what do you think that is?

You know, I think it does have... do with your personality it's innate you know what i mean like i think so like i see it my daughter scarlett she is that way she just got roller skates for christmas and at first she's fallen all over the place like you know a little baby deer when they start walking or a giraffe that was her she just did not know how to roller skate and she would not take them off all day on christmas day she fell many times she would not take him off even when she would cry even when she'd scrape her little knee and by the end of the day she's roller skating through the house now every day she puts him back on and and she would not take no for an answer she has that that's her disposition my son preston on the other hand he's freaking chill he wants to play with his little ninja turtles and his toys and do make believe he's not really that way like he's more just kick back and chill and he's easier to parent you know what i mean he doesn't fight me as much she will she will but you know what i know that she's going to go out and conquer some big dreams in her life because i just see it in her eyes and that's who she is So I love that, man.

I think some people are born with that.

Others, maybe you can develop it over time through life circumstances.

But I always had that as a kid.

I always wanted to be the best man.

And I always had dreams of being a professional athlete or the vision of being able to like buy my parents a home one day or even like crazier scenarios.

I forgave myself for everything that I had done in life, and I can't tell you the weight that was off my shoulders when I did that, And it allowed me to actually start working on myself instead of continuing to try to cover up those feelings and do the same thing over and over and over.