You know, when you hit 20, 25, what was that projected for you that, that you grew up with, that came from your family, your community? Who was Sarah supposed to be from that?

Mm-hmm.

So it was a very conservative upbringing, very blue collar, very religious, and it gave me a foundation and an expectation of stability, and an understanding of what I wanted my children to grow up in, from the standpoint of living in the same house, not moving around constantly, knowing that, you know, their parents would be home at night.

Um, you know, kind of the Family Matters, Full House version was not what I grew up around, and that was- The dream that seemed incredibly unattainable, um, my parents both grew up what we call Dolly Parton poor, um, extreme poverty.

And, you know, I'm the first person or the first generation, my sibling and I, that we haven't picked cotton.

We don't know what that's like.

We haven't skipped meals or gone hungry.

Who would want me?