Yep.

But you'll get better from that food poisoning and then you will continue on your way.

But, so that's like a, that's a body up process, a bottom up process.

But say six weeks later you're in the mall and your daughter says, can we have sushi? And you think, oh, every time I think about sushi now, I feel nauseous.

So thinking about sushi can't make you nauseous because you haven't eaten sushi, but that is your brain becoming predictive.

So your brain is always going to remember the negative things that happen to us because the most important thing for your brain, particularly for the subconscious part of the brain, which is 90% of your brain, is your survival.

So everything that you are doing, it's trying to protect you.

So we do need to get to our closing questions shortly, but is there anything else that you'd like to sort of leave listeners with? Anything else that you've discovered along the way that you think might be interesting or helpful for them to know?

Uh, was that a similar story that you heard from the women in the group who were obviously affected as children?

It wasn't just women in the group.

There were also men as well.

Um, they were, they, they had all been children when the parent killed the other.

Yeah, there was a number in the group, um, that, that had to go and visit the parent in prison.

Um, and there was one from the group that had to go, um, and live with, um, their father, um, um, her father when he, when he was released.

Um, uh, yeah, and yes.

And so now, are children's wishes taken into account? And I appreciate it would depend on the age of the young person.