What about when should they ask you out to meet in person, to take the conversation offline? Like, what is the best way for a guy to ask you out, and how you appreciate the way they ask it?

Yeah.

It's, that's such a good que- May, you have so many good questions.

[laughs] You know, it's, I'm very passionate about this particular question.

Whoever it is, the man or the woman, after two days, three days of messaging back and forth, you've got to get a- off of the app.

And if the man isn't gonna move it off of the app, then as a woman, you need to do it.

And I think that we need to be very, like, understanding that men have already kind of put themselves out there, and they're always the ones that we ask to make the first step.

... why people just don't wanna put in the work.