You take as much time as you want.

But basically the...

What happened was that when I was coaching rowing, my wife and I had our kids, our first two kids.

And during that time, we had a really difficult pregnancy.

And I won't go into all the details, but we were told multiple times that both of them weren't going to survive or that we were going to have to choose which one to sacrifice, to increase the chance that the other one would live.

And it was a very traumatic experience.

And when they were finally born, and everything was fine in the end, which is obviously the most important thing, but it was a really traumatic experience.

How do you win that?