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Ryan Winder

Ryan Winder

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, podcast host of "The Vegas Therapist," and clinical supervisor specializing in couples, family, and addiction therapy.

Jun 17, 2026

5:56
Ryan, when somebody publicly humiliates a person they've never met, what is usually happening psychologically? I
6:04
mean, I think there's probably a few things that are going on psychologically.
6:08
One, again, the idea of like that de-individualization for them, like they don't really see you as a human.
6:15
It's like, oh, here's this person with big boobs and big breasts, you know, we'll just make fun of them or whatever.
6:19
But I think individually, You know, they're looking for group validation.
6:23
They're looking for, you know, the attention of social media.
6:26
They're looking for, you know, and maybe even to some degree, depending on the situation, their own insecurities are kind of coming through that.

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46:11
And then number two, like, why would they, is that supposed to be like an insult or...

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